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Old Jan 25, 2023, 06:02 PM
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Originally Posted by Have Hope View Post
divine, you make solid points, but emotions are not logical - and I have an emotional pull towards my husband that makes me want to reach out to him. He has been my main support through some very difficult times - my go-to person. And often, he's had great advice and also supportive words for me. it's emotional, not logical.
Oh I get emotions, I just believe that here you need logic. It’s just how do you reconcile hating him and calling him abuser and monster, but then seeking his support because he is so supportive. I just don’t know how it works. I understand you do what you feel right but I don’t know how you feel like this negatively strong about him or tell him some strong negative things, but then want his support just few days later. I hope it works out whatever you decide to do
Thanks for this!
poshgirl, unaluna