Its just that that situation happened on another forum years ago that I remember happening, a member there got banned for multiple accounts, then months later someone else said quite innocently "just getting another blanket" or something along those lines (the banned member was called blanket), admin there got furious and went after that member publically when that particular member had no idea anyone had had that username, by "blanket" they literally meant a blanket, not the banned member

just so its clear, this happened on a different forum, not this forum or any mental health site

I don't want that situation to happen here, me saying a word innocently (not even being aware that a member ever had that as a username) then what i saw happen elsewhere happen here, this time to me