Sounds that your life styles don’t match. She likes to drink and party and hang out with partying guys. Pretty much she wants to be free. Doesn’t sound like you want the same thing, seems like drinking is also a big part of your life but other than that it doesn’t sound like you are big on night life and parties. Why are you together is not very clear

I was not a big supporter of reading her emails and checking her phone. It’s uncalled for. Just end this charade already

Never mind. Sounds like it’s over. Good. Don’t date people who lead different life style from yours