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Old Jan 29, 2023, 07:06 AM
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Originally Posted by divine1966 View Post
Well yeah many husbands buy their wives flowers, but you two filed for divorce and are separated so no sending two dozen roses isn’t a normal gesture and isn’t done to cheer you up. Going through divorce doesn’t mean people can’t do something to help their former partner with something or cheer them up. It’s understandable. But not roses and not two dozen. He does it now because you called him and he now has more hope. He is love bombing. It worked last time so he’s encouraged.
I do know this. Which is why when he showed up with roses, I told him that I don't want to give him any false hopes of reconciliation.
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