Thank you so much for the feedback, Discombobulated... I appreciate it!She told me about the revenge fantasies awhile ago when she had been let down by someone who was an apparent narcissist (so she said!), and it did made me jump up and take notice, but then I second-guessed myself and said to myself that she could've hidden the truth, so at least she was being honest. But, you know, I never forgot it. And the fear has resurfaced now that I confronted her.