People who pay thousands for “porn”, are paying for private time/chats/rooms with someone, camera girls, or escort. No one pays thousands to just watch something that’s widely available for free. Maybe he just cheats virtually but maybe in person, especially if he spends all that money when he’s away from home.

I’d say it makes a big difference what people spend on because it’s not overspending issues. This is an issue of endangering one’s household, infidelity and child care. You don’t want to raise kids in such environment.

Don’t move. Be done with him