we have them also vince, they make Tig hurt lots when she listens to them. sometimes she really does hear them now though. we are trying to get her someplace where she won't have to listen to them and she can make new old tapes... maybe you should try vince. any time anyone says anything bad about you you can change it to a good thing such as "you deserved that" you can change that to "no one deserved that and they just misunderstood my actions" does that make sense? if it doesn't let me know my name is selena hope you can do something that Tig is struggling with cause if someone else can do it then i think that she might see it's worth fighting for the change instead of continuing to give up like she is