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Originally Posted by indigo1015
Thanks for the vote of confidence divine, appreciate it :-) It’s just been my experience that guys these days seem to want a woman they can conveniently fit into their lives and who will adapt to them, without any compromise whatsoever. Call me crazy, but that’s not how relationhips should work. You meet each other halfway as best you can, and if you can’t, then maybe it’s not meant to be. I’m a pretty independent person— that being said, I’m willing to compromise on many things, but I’ve just met so many guys who keep trying to change me and I resent it. Take me as I am or leave me be. I would love to have a wonderful, fulfilling relationship, but I don’t NEED it. That’s been an issue with guys too. So has my friendships with other guys. What can I say— I’ve always had more guy friends than girl friends. The bottom line is that I don’t need fixing or saving, and I refuse to be something that a guy can accrue just for the purpose of being married. I have not idea where I’m going with this rant, but it’s been said at least LOL
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I get it. Some men might be that way. There are men though who aren’t interested in changing you and aren’t interested in trying to fit you into their life. They are out there. Most women nowadays are independent in spirit and life style. Who wants to adapt to a man to the point of losing their identity?
It’s great you do not need a man. Too many women are so dependent in every sense. It’s a dangerous place to be. It’s healthy to appreciate a good relationship. It’s unhealthy to need one