When you have to do more to make up for a drug addicted/ alcoholic parent or spouse it means what you did was never appreciated properly. This is typical of what happens when dealing with an alcoholic. It’s a very narcissistic self absorbed individual. And they do all kinds of things to conceal the fact that they have a problem. And, they can get mean and at times very entitled and blame others.

It’s terrible when someone acts like a total jerk and doesn’t even remember the next day how badly they behaved.

Alcoholics don’t like me because I KNOW what they are and will call them out on it. Their story revolves around their drinking.