“I didn’t drink last night” is only a big deal to an ALCOHOLIC.

People who don’t have the problem would never think to even say they did not drink. If it’s mentioned at all THERE IS A PROBLEM

I was drinking and ended up saying this
I. Had some drinks and got weak
I drank too much and we had a fight and I blacked out and can’t remember. I will have to ask my friends what happened.
I went to the hangout with a friend and wanted to go flirt and my friend got mad.
My S/O brings up my drinking. Nothing wrong with me so what.

It never ceases to amaze me how people fail to see THE CLEAR RED FLAGS. Not to mention the constant DRAMA and different moods.