Women scare the hell out of me, too. I will never forget the time I was sitting in T's office before I started my internship and I suddenly said to him: "Oh %#@&#!-- it just occurred to me-- there's gonna be women there. I'll have to give them therapy, too." I have spent a lot of time separating my personal life countertransference from my therapist countertransference towards women. I have done well, but I have to say that I do genuinely enjoy counseling men and it is a specialty all its own in the psychology world-- one that I get more and more interested in exploring (think men's issues, lol).

I rarely engage in deep relationships (or any relationships) with women. No, that's a lie. I formed a couple female friendships since moving here, but I have trouble sustaining them.

For as much as I can't stand being around women, mulitple that by 600 and that is how much I enjoy being a woman.

Like you, Miss, I love dressing feminine and sexy. Sexy does not have to mean boobs and *** hanging out. You can look sexy in an appropriate, put together outfit that you could go to the office in.

However, I think there is always a time for a bit of cleavage, if you've got it, lol. I don't mind showing off my body a bit-- I really don't see why it should be all covered up. There is a a fine line-- no, I do not go out of the house in some cheesy getup with a thong showing out of my pants and a midriff baring shirt... but I do like to wear form-fitting clothes, short skirts, strapless dresses and shirt, and tops that are cut low (but not ridiculously low).

Sexy can be extremely tasteful and classy. It can be fun, funky, and comfortable.

I grew up very, very close with my father and I still am to this day. He is my dad; he is one of my closest friends.

I specifically asked for a male therapist. I specifically asked for a male psychiatrist. All of my doctors (yes, even ob/gyn), are male.