Please stay away for a while.You need a physical distance while you process your feelings of upset.There was a time when I needed help from my parents.I asked my dad if I could come home for a couple of months.And this request was just after I nurtured him to life from a near death situation ,while my mom didn't care for him.He was critically ill and I paused my life,ran to my parents home to rescue him. I needed help now and he said......You are not welcome here ,if you don't obey your mother.That meant take the abuse that she dishes out.I agreed to not to trigger my mom and stayed there a month.I will tell you that month was most bizarre part of my life.My mom became a monster because she had a permission to abuse.I actually moved out earlier than I wanted.Just wanted to share.