I say it happened years ago because much of the stuff she is angry at me about is stuff from over 10 years ago that we already worked through and talked about almost as many years ago. Stuff that I heard her on and have never repeated. .
Whether she can realize that doesn't change the fact she is beating the hell out of me verbally and it's really hurting me and I am becoming the victim of trauma now.

I love her so much what the hell do I do ??