I think it’s important to know your deal breakers and have specific boundaries and standards before you marry. It depends what you are ok with.

Personally I am not interested in marrying a man who flirts with people, I don’t care if they are strippers or CEOs. I have no desire to be with a man who doesn’t pay bills, doesn’t help out and asks random women for money. He works too but you pay for everything? Not my thing. Some women are ok with it. And some women might find my husband boring as he’s just a regular person.

So you have to figure out your deal breakers before marrying. Some things pop up here and there like maybe leaving dirty dishes in the sink kind of thing. What you described didn’t just pop up. You’ve been only married 6 months. No way he completely changed in 6 months. You just didn’t know him well enough.

You just have to decide if that’s the kind of husband you want. While you deciding it, I don’t think having children is wise. If he doesn’t help out now and you pay for everything, it will get only harder with kids are in the picture.