Thanks everyone.

That has helped me feel a bit better.

I was feeling immense guilt after her initial meltdown, and learning that this far on she's still so angry really upset me.

I consider myself a good person. I treated her well, and have never intentionally hurt anyone. So I find it difficult when someone is painting me as a bad person, particularly someone to whom I did so much for.

Also, maybe I'm wrong here, but i don't really consider my sexuality to ne anyones business but mine and don't consider there any obligation to share it with anyone, even a partner, so long as I'm faithful and loving to them.

I don't intend to have any further contact with her. But, her volatility scares me and she is the sort of person, I believe, to act vindictively given the chance.