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Feb 08, 2023, 02:32 PM
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Member Since: Jul 2019
Location: Downtown Vibes, California
Posts: 15,701
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Originally Posted by Waterbear
My immediate thought when she said she was uncomfortable was that maybe she was physically uncomfortable, like in a strange position or something. But I know my mind would also have jumped to the same confusion about being emotionally uncomfortable, if it were me.
And I just wonder whether (and I only say this because I KNOW I would do the same) this negative feeling inside you, and the place your head is in, could be skewing other things too. That's not to say that you aren't seeing this right, just to offer an alternative potential, if that makes sense.
I really hope you can go to your session, and that you can work this out between you, because I know how much these ruptures and inconsistencies can really affect our mental health. Take care of yourself, and hugs if wanted.
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Yes, physically uncomfortable crossed my mind, too.I'm fairly sure she meant uncomfortable with the emotional aspect, but come to think of it...she may well have meant physical. That's rather amusing and puts quite a different spin on things, doesn't it?
It is not only possible, but probably likely, that I am skewing things. I wish I could tell. Well, I know I am to a degree, anyway. I wish I could "measure" how much is me, how much is her perception and delivery. Guess that's where writing down my thoughts could help.
I have decided, based upon the feedback on this thread, to go to my session tomorrow. If it were not for this thread I likely would have cancelled. I know people on this subforum have plenty of experience with therapy and that really helps me today.
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