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Old Feb 08, 2023, 11:31 PM
jnoah jnoah is offline
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Ive been talking/hanging out with this girl for about 2 months now. Weve hung out 5 times and I havent been able to make a move. Im still a virgin and am super nervous in the moment. Theres been plenty of opportunities and the vibe is there but I cant make the move. Also Im not a big texter so we only talk every 2-3 days and our conversations are pretty short. Sometimes we will have a longer conversation over text but its pretty rare. Mostly when I message her its to hang out but I have recently been trying to message her more.

I tried to make plans with her last week but unfortunately we were both busy but she told me she would love to after her trip.

I want to make plans with her this weekend since shes coming back from a trip and I want to see her again before Valentines Day. Ideally if we link before valentines we could make plans for valentines. I dont want to jump straight to asking her to do something for Valentines because I think it might be a little weird considering I havent even kissed her yet. I texted her Tuesday and this was the exchange. She has always responded well to gifs especially of Kermit so I thought this would work.

She didnt reply but I dont think its a big deal because shes on a trip with her friends and I didnt really move the conversation forward with my message. But I want to know if I should push for plans this weekend. I do want to see her and want to be persistent but I dont want to come off as pushy or desperate.

Should I ask her again on Saturday/Sunday if shes doing anything/feeling spontaneous. Shes a very attractive girl and if I dont make a move someone else will. Lastly, if this weekend doesnt work out should I directly ask her to be my valentines/do something on Valentines Day?

Any advice would be greatly appreciated.