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Feb 09, 2023, 10:24 PM
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Member Since: Jul 2019
Location: Downtown Vibes, California
Posts: 15,701
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Thank you @Waterbear , I appreciate that.
You were all my "pocket pals" today. You gave me courage and support, so thanks for being there 
I did go to the session and it turned out to be extremely productive. Good, solid communication and a deeper understanding of each other and, surely, of ourselves.
The "long hug" - M. asked that I please not feel at all ashamed of it. She said she was well aware of my need, that particular day, to be held. She was warm and honest about the whole thing. She said no, an extra-long hug is not something she'd feel comfortable with frequently because it starts to feel like crossing boundaries.
I understand what she means...there was, at the end of our hug, a slightly quasi-sexual intimacy. We discussed that today. And at the end of today's session we had our usual hug, and that was wonderful.
So I'm processing all of this. My dreams tonight should be interesting 
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