nammu, I am so sorry for your mom not eating. sounds like she is ready to go.please don't think about a feeding tube.that would be force feeding her. and you don't want that. keeping her comfortable is what she wants. talk to her read to her the paper if she wishes apply lotion to her arms and legs massage her while putting on the lotion don't forget her feet.It is such a neglected area and a foot massage feels so good. Don't worry about doing it the perfect way, just try different things and ask her to tell you what she likes as you do this.then you could do this daily. It is such a comfort.
bizi