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Originally Posted by *Beth*
Thank you for sharing such an intense part of your life, ronkuby. I have a couple of similar experiences. My marriage was in shambles when I ended up being with other men (my husband flatly refused counseling for himself or for us, he has severe OCD & refuses treatment, a mess). I regret not having divorced my husband 20 years ago, when I knew that would be the best and healthiest course for me.
How do you feel about your marriage, overall?
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overall the marriage is great, and that's the part that makes it harder. if i hadn't had that episode, i never would have gone down that road with the person outside of my marriage, but then i never would have known her. if my marriage sucked i would just leave, i've done it before. it's incredibly bittersweet i guess