With the nice money he makes he certainly can have extra 900 next month. It’s not that much at all. Not for people who make good money.

Maybe if he won’t eat out every day or at all and won’t buy drugs and won’t go to bars to dance (and obviously buy drinks). Most people who make nice money but are broke are only broke because they mismanage their finances and live above their means.

Sometimes we need a day in a been bag chair.

I’d not “date” a man (new man or ex) because I am in a financial pickle. Wrong reason for dating. It never ends well.

He’s not authentic. If he really wanted to help he’d give you 1k when you asked or he’ll help with rent without mentioning dating since you are both on a lease.

He puts a condition on it. He’ll help if he can date you. Maybe he didn’t word it like this verbatim but that’s how he means it. This whole things puts him in a power seat. Then you’ll owe him.

I’d consult with recruiters what to say about reasons for leaving your job if you were fired. There must be a way to word it. Laid off?