Bellatrix.....Ima pickin up what ur laying down!! I am not interested anymore either. I don't know how to get over it, so maybe we can learn together. Like you said, "I want to want sex". I am 31, have 3 kids, and have been married for 8yrs. My husband and I have been together for 14ys. In my situation, I am at the point of thinking it is resentment. He had multiple affairs. I didn't find this out until our second child was one month old. I was devastated =( to say the least. But, even before all this I didn't really ever have a high sex drive. I have had all the check ups as well, and NOTHING!! It is just my problem. When we got back to together (after separating for awhile....after I found out) we dated, and things were great. My sex drive picked up..... That was 3yrs ago! And, now I really don't care anymore. I NEED HELP!!!!!!!!!! It is causing problems in my marriage now. Most people probably argue over money, NOPE not us....our arguements are over S E X. What to do....What to do????

SOMEONE HELP PLEASE!!!