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Originally Posted by Have Hope
To clarify, is there no physical contact as a result of your infidelity, or did the lack of intimacy begin before you were unfaithful? I ask because an infidelity is MOST difficult to get past. Some people can, and many people cannot. So, if the lack of affection is due to the infidelity, then it will be very hard to get your marriage back on track. But if it began before then, there may be a chance through couples therapy. And why can't you separate/divorce?
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It began much before and obviously got worse after infidelity. Life got better of over the years. Tried to bring up this aspect several times over the years but no heed was paid it until it kept getting repressed and finally burst out in the form of infidelity. We have tried all kinds of couples therapy to no avail. We can separate although not legally as there is a legal need for us to stay married that decides our future in this country . Our current finances won’t let separate unofficially.