HUGS LT. I'm sorry today's session didn't go well. I think that "warm and nurturing" sounds good, and hopefully you will find a therapist to see for a while or maybe make a permanent change who can help you with some attachment/transference. You got a lot of good responses on questions to ask. If you have a dx I think also asking if they have experience with OCD or whatever would be good too. Good luck! Hugs Kit