The whole convo is plaguing my mind. And I am pretty sure I am going to be smeared to my extended family. One key thing she brought up was we had a conversation where she said she was going to give my address to my abuser (my mother), after knowing how she literally harassed my other abuser (brother) and his family, without asking me. I said, "I'd disown you if you did that," with sarcasm. She kind of said "really?!" I think I remember it was just a conversation. I said something sarcastic without meaning it. and I think I explained to her that you just can't particularly hand my address over to someone (who has abused me in the past) when I made a point of being "no contact" with this person. Boundaries are boundaries. Don't violate them.

Then again the conversation was barely remembered by me. This is what she remembers.

She is using that to underline my callousness.