I don’t think G-d places anyone into any situation and certainly not to show them that they need husbands. I am sure it’s not the case. But if you believe G-d puts you in same horrible situations then maybe to show that change is needed. Not just with your husband

In general if same or similar things keep occurring to us, then doing things differently is the first step. Not just in relationships, but jobs, friendships, health, behaviors etc If we want change, we should do things differently.

Omg what happened with your teeth that you had to do dental work while unemployed? I have lots of teeth problems so that’s I get but why now. Don’t have to answer it’s just a terrible timing

What do your mom and sister say to all this? Do they think you should go back to your husband? Do they know you are considering it? They don’t have to know, just wonder if they have better insight as they actually know him