The great thing about therapy is that you get to work on things as you see fit.
Pains from your past are interferring with your present day choices you are making...
this what I mean, it is about changing the way we interact with people, building your self esteem learning to take care of yourself with out a man, these are all hard choices.
But you can work on yourself...
This is not easy but you are worthy of this work.
I wish you wellness.
bizi