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Originally Posted by ArtleyWilkins
I just don’t believe relying on a narcissistic , abusive man (by your own assessment) is what God has in mind. (The Bible and history is full of stories of people falling for false “prophets.”) Just consider that you’ve been down this road before, multiple times, and he has never maintained his ability to honor you. Believe people when, over and over and over, they show you who they really are.
I’ll stop. I don’t think you really want to hear this.
People here keep warning you because we have watched this play out over years, and we care. But bottom line, you will make your own choices based on your perception of the situation. We care though, or we wouldn’t try.
Best of luck as you move forward.
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I understand... fully, I do understand. And I appreciate the caring words and advice - very much so. I will be careful. And I will be mindful.
I honestly do not understand God or God's ways. I had prayed to receive a man in my life who would marry me. I prayed to God, verbatim, saying "You know what I need". Then, I met my husband the very next month, or within one month of that prayer. Then within one month of dating, he wanted to marry me. I thought he was the answer to my prayer.
And here we are today, still connected, unable to let go of each other fully. I don't know what it means. I am sure God does not intend for me to be abused.... of course not, I cannot imagine that. BUT, God did place this man in my path.... I am either learning a lesson, or perhaps my husband is there simply to help me through right now, without any further commitments, and through all of my recent. troubles, for which my husband has been there.