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Originally Posted by Britedark
Thank you for your reply. Whatever happened was definitely not consensual because I kept telling him to stop and he didn’t, but I get your point. I can’t prove that it was non-consensual. I didn't know he was a creep - he was ok in High School and then we got back in touch about three years ago through this group. He behaves when he comes to our meets. This was the first time I met him alone.
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Even though you can’t prove that you were violated you know and we know what happened was NOT consensual at all. You told him to stop. He didn’t. Not consensual
Him inviting you for a private lunch but then insisting you go to his house (where was his wife at the time? I assume she was at work?), offering alcohol and then keep doing things including groping you when you said NO, isn’t a friendly gesture. I have men friends. It is not how men who want to be friends behave. I’d stay far away from this man. As far as possible.
I am glad you assess this situation accurately. Sorry for what happened to you