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Originally Posted by divine1966
Even though you can’t prove that you were violated you know and we know what happened was NOT consensual at all. You told him to stop. He didn’t. Not consensual
Him inviting you for a private lunch but then insisting you go to his house (where was his wife at the time? I assume she was at work?), offering alcohol and then keep doing things including groping you when you said NO, isn’t a friendly gesture. I have men friends. It is not how men who want to be friends behave. I’d stay far away from this man. As far as possible.
I am glad you assess this situation accurately. Sorry for what happened to you
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Thank you so much for understanding. Your validation has really meant a lot to me. Thank you. Big hugs. I'll be more circumspect in the future. I thought I was past that age but clearly not.
Writing on this forum was one of the best decisions I took. Thank you, all of you, for helping me put things into perspective. All of you have been wonderfully supportive.