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Old Feb 18, 2023, 05:19 PM
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Originally Posted by Mendingmysoul View Post
Please don't internalize the adjectives people throw at you.They don't define the real you.And moreover you acknowledged your own issues and acted to solve it.You are a way better person than all those who send the slew of negative adjectives your way.

It’s hard not to internalize those comments when not only did I hear them when I was fat, but that I stopped hearing them when I was thin. People are such assholes— they needed to mind their own business and see me for who I was regardless of my size, but they didn’t. I’m not stupid— did they think I wouldn’t get it? Did they really think I would forget all the horrible things they had said to me before? The answer is probably that they didn’t think at all. Like i said, people are assholes.

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