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Old Feb 19, 2023, 12:11 AM
*Beth* *Beth* is offline
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Originally Posted by bearybear View Post
...I haven’t wanted to ask because I knew she’d reject me, because she’s being really careful not to encourage my maternal transference, but I finally plucked up the courage to ask her for a cuddle today (don’t judge) and she wouldn’t....

Ooh, I'm not judging you, at all. I'm in a very similar place with my t, except I haven't had the courage to ask her to hold me. You were so brave to ask. I'm wondering why your t is discouraging transference? It should be worked with, I believe, not just discouraged.
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