I recommend working with career counseling or other vocational services to help you find the right fit. I am not sure which jobs you are referring to and why they says you’d cause harm. Are you talking like being a bus driver if you have a delayed reaction kind of thing? Like doing jobs you aren’t suited for this causing harm?
That’s why it’s important to work with some type vocational services.
You said you are in school, what do you study? I recall awhile ago you studied to be a florist. It sounds like a great career and can’t really harm anyone in that job. What happened to that?
I am not sure I understand what your family is trying to do?