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Old Feb 19, 2023, 10:19 AM
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Originally Posted by Marie123 View Post
In regards to your mom's "friend"---I would tell her (the friend).......If you choose to speak to me disrespectfully we will not have a conversation." The friend will immediately argue that she is not being disrespectful, etc. Abusers will always deny the abuse. Your mom can then refuse to talk to her, unless she stops the abuse. Being verbally abused is like having rocks thrown at you, and we would never allow that.
Agreed! My poor mother!!! I need to check in with her today, but basically her whole getaway is ruined because of her abusive gf.... little did my mother know it was this bad, ALL these years. Weird. 55+ years without knowing someone is in fact, abusive.
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Thanks for this!
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