So after many tears, as usual for me now a days, and conversations we are officially not going to my nephew's or sister's wedding ( my husband was supposed to be best man for one and officiating the other). My mom wants us to at least go to the one he was officiating but it's going to cause to much hardship on us. It sucks. We are stuck in this city until at least our health problems get dealt with. Money can't fix the problems. Though we're bleeding money since we moved.