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Feb 19, 2023, 05:08 PM
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Member Since: Jul 2019
Location: Downtown Vibes, California
Posts: 15,701
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Hi thetanager, I heard a comedy routine on the radio a few days ago. The comedian said something about if marriage was like buying a used car, would we do it? "Well, it runs pretty well...has it its good days and bad days, but..." 
Anyway, the routine was pretty amusing.
My husband and I have been together for 42 years. I never wanted to marry anyone and I wish I had followed my instincts. That said, I love being a mom and I was a good wife, until my husband was so neglectful of our relationship he killed my love for him. We haven't lived together for many years. We seemed to have remained dear friends, although for this past year I'm feeling that there's less of a friendship than there used to be. He neglects friendship just the way he neglected marriage. It's always what's convenient for him, what makes his life nicer. I wish I would have had the courage and self-confidence to divorce my husband 23 years ago. But, my life's story isn't finished yet.
What do you think the main problems in your marriage are?
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