When do you learn to let your heart open up to someone? I am so sick of the ride, but I can't get off. Th first time I opened my heart, I was stupid, and swore never to love again, but then met my last BF. It took me several months to open my heart to him, only to have him tear it to shreds. Alas, I have to put the shattered bits of it back in the gaping hole in my chest and wonder....do I dare attempt to love again? Or do I just stay seated with both arms in the car at all times and "enjoy" the ride?