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Brian37 said:
no im not done with therapy.....just had a 48 hour stretch where all I wanted to do was watch the world crumble and everyone die
thats the roller-coaster ride we call depression and after 25 years im still riding the damn thing
I appreciate all the hugs and responses...sometimes you just want someone to acknowledge your human and you count
I just get disgusted every time I sit on the couch at my therapists and suddenly turn into a zombie ......I cant blame her for finally confronting me on how the client has to become engaged to get any results.......really?....why cant we just talk about you sweetie??
oh well....
and in the immortal word's of Dori the fish in Finding Nemo:
"just keep swimming, just keep swimming"
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<font color="#000088">You will get out of therapy what you put into it--- IF IF IF you have a good psychologist. I cannot truly determine if your T. was appropriate in confronting you about lack of results, because I am lacking the context of what she truly said.
HOWEVER... it seems to me that if she was as accusatory as how you make her sound, and she "confronted" you about the lack of results as if you were all at fault, that she is the one to blame more than likely. Comments like those have no place in therapy, and I see nothing to gain by blaming the client in that manner for lack of progress. Perhaps the lack of progress you are seeing could be fixed by a different therapist.
But Brian, you've got to correct your expressed viewpoint of looking at her as "sweetie" or as some sexual figure bro. Therapy cannot possibly get favorable results if all you see is a hot chick, and this is all you have really relayed in here--- I'm assuming your mind wanders onto this in therapy also. If your T. can't make progress with you and essentially blames you for it as you seem to be saying... well, I'd say that's a red flag if I have ever seen one.
But, your attitude about how you see your therapist is not ---conducive, shall we say, to making therapy progress.

I sincerely plead with you to seek therapy with another therapist, and I don't think it should be a female Brian. Maybe your like me anyway, and you open up better with males. What do you think the problem is bro? </font>