Thread: I let him back in and now I am kicking myself #2
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Old Feb 20, 2023, 07:27 AM
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Originally Posted by Marie123 View Post
How about....I will have no communication with you, unless it is regarding the divorce situation.
TY.

I think what I want to say is something like this:

It was really nice to be together Sat, and I think for both of us, it met some of our respective needs. I needed emotional support & comforting, which you gave me, and we both needed the physical closeness.

You had said in your offer no strings attached, and I had also told you that it doesn't mean we are getting back together.

And the reality is, being together in that way again doesn't fix or solve the issues, which are very much there for me. And, I just don't feel the way I used to feel. Emotionally, I cannot get back together with you… I just can't. I can't go there again.
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