Hi Skeezkys! I remember you and your condition, it's probably been about ten years ago- back when I was on here more often. I totally get you, I suppose, "Happy wife, happy life" mean something to you?! Both and I very codependent and currently in a long-distance marriage (she lives in Oklahoma most of the year, me in Oregon) but with today's technology (video communication and Zoom) it is like we are together every day.