How about you do things that please *you* going forward.

You are an adult and as long as you are not harming anyone, you are allowed to make your own choices. They are also adults. So, if they behave like children (e.g. disappointed you are not doing what they want) that's on *them*. Ignore them.

It's *your* life and *your* choices. So, stop giving them so much power over you.