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Old Feb 20, 2023, 06:34 PM
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Originally Posted by divine1966 View Post
It sounds like he doesn’t have too many interests outside of eating/drinking/smoking, shopping and maybe TV. Even with back problems he could probably have some interests that would be exciting. People could have interests and hobbies in a wheel chair. And it doesn’t sound like he encouraged you to form your own groups and do your own things. You had only him. Not healthy but that’s how he likes it
He needed and wanted me all to himself, stuck at home, or doing only the things he enjoyed and wanted to do, which was extremely limited for me - my world became very narrow and limited.... even when I wanted to see music he didn't to see, or go to a music venue that was different than the norm, I couldn't go.
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