I just got major pushback when setting the boundaries with my husband. He cannot respect my boundaries, and never has. We hung out last weekend, but I had to tell him today that I do not want a relationship with him ever again and that too much damage had been done throughout our marriage. He couldn't respect my feelings and couldn't just accept it. He had to argue against my stance, trying to still convince me to change my mind or sway me in another direction. It was manipulative and I resent it.