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Originally Posted by Have Hope
I am not considering it whatsoever. I would never live with him again. This weekend, I was reminded of what it's really like living with him. It's like living with a 70 or 80 year old invalid. It wasn't fun, & I really didn't have any fun. I am far too young and healthy to be that... immobilized. I would never even think of living with him again, let alone putting my name on a condo he bought. Would that really make it hard for me to leave again? I am just curious.
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Of course it is much harder to leave when you own property together! You can’t just leave. You can’t just walk away from property. You have to sell and split proceeds (if there is any equity) or if one person wants to keep it, they have to refinance and buy you out.
Owning property is one the reasons why leaving marriage is often complicated and it’s a lengthy process
Of course if your name is not on it, you could just move out. It’s not your problem then but why would you not having your name on it if you are married? ???
Why would you not having name on the house if you live there and are married? If something happens to your husband, you’d be on the streets. You have no rights for it then.
And will you not be spending a penny on anything in the house? Like just leave like a roommate? If you plan on doing anything in the house (like you want to paint a wall or put new blinds) you want your name on it! Your money will go to drain if you don’t! You’ll be spending money raising value of the house with no name on it?
I am sure he just playing games and not buying anything