Of course it is much harder to leave when you own property together! You can’t just leave. You can’t just walk away from property. You have to sell and split proceeds (if there is any equity) or if one person wants to keep it, they have to refinance and buy you out.

Owning property is one the reasons why leaving marriage is often complicated and it’s a lengthy process

Of course if your name is not on it, you could just move out. It’s not your problem then but why would you not having your name on it if you are married