Youre not getting on my nerves!

I just want you to take a page from my lazy book and stop being so hard on yourself.
It took me 70 years to start saying, "i cant take this mess anymore." The person who made the mess is not-me, if you remember the character from The Family Circle by Bil Keane.
You will find the person who is-you - let her come to you.
Sorry if i sounded harsh. I intended hearty!