This morning he brought up the fact that I turned my back on him when his mother died. I told him this over the weekend, and I told him WHY - because he had treated me like crap for over a month in Aug/Sept. So he brings it up today, coupled with how HE himself has NEVER turned his back on me during any of my troubled times.

So he's trying to instill guilt and make me the bad guy once again. I wasn't having it and told him I am not going to discuss it any further. And I had sent flowers and I did call him the moment I learned his mother had died! What did he expect, after treating me like crap for an entire month???? That I am just going to lie down and take his abuse, support him endlessly at my own expense?????

What an a-hole. This really angered me, all over again. Making himself out to be the victim, and me, the bad guy. I stood up for myself and said he treated me like crap on and off throughout the entire marriage and over the last 5 years! And now he wants to crucify me because I turned my back on him, after the last straw?????

Go to hell you a-hole. I am so done with you.