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Old Feb 21, 2023, 04:57 PM
bearybear bearybear is offline
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Location: UK
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We’ve had some really beautiful sessions together T but I have to say Friday was terrible. The worst we’ve ever had. I thought maybe I was over reacting but actually when I think about it objectively…I think you really f***ed up. You didn’t validate any of my feelings or answer my questions. You didn’t ask me if I was ok during EMDR and you pushed me to continue even when I tried to give you signals that I wasn’t ok. You switched the buzzers back on without asking me every time. I wasn’t ready and I had questions and I needed reassurance. When I tried to talk after you’d switched them on you told me to ‘just go with it’. You dismissed me. You weren’t there for me. I don’t get it. Were you trying to make me unattach to you by making me feel uncared for and shamed? Or were you just being inpatient and insensitive? Either way, not ok
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