Thank you.

You know what else? I had written a letter to him back in August, meant for our couples therapy session. Yet he read it before we went to our session. My letter spelled out to him all the fights he was instigating with me, how awful it was to. be on the receiving end of it all the time, and how it needed to just STOP. What does he do after reading it? He fought with me the very next weekend!!!!! AGAIN!!!!!! AND NOW HE CLAIMS THAT HE WAS TOO STUBBORN TO ABSORB MY MESSAGE. That, in fact, he couldn't hear it at the time, because he didn't want to believe it about himself. Then, he fought with me over this for the first 2 months of our separation, downplaying all that fighting and making is seem like I should just forgive him because he "wasn't himself".

And NOW, 4 months later, he's trying to claim he suddenly gets it????

I am so tired of his excuses!!!!!!!! I told him this weekend, that what mattered to ME, was his response to my letter. And he completely ignored my words, my feelings and my warnings. So be it. Ignore it and this is what you get: divorce.