I almost never dream about anyone in particular who hasn't caused me harm. So I rarely dream about T or L.

I've had two dreams about L in our 4 years together. First one was a sexual one. Second one was just this week. It was about her getting pregnant and abandoning me. I told her about both. For both she said they were understandable given the circumstances. The sex one she said sounded very nurturing and loving. The pregnancy one she said was because that's a real fear of mine.

I tell L all my dreams I remember. I also tell her disturbing dreams and fantasies. I don't find it weird. L, and I, believe that dreams are the brain's and body's way of communicating and processing relevant things. So sharing a dream with her is similar to sharing what I'm dealing with and/or feeling.